When I was 3 I knew you loved me
When I was 4 I was sure you loved me
When I was 5 I was scared you didn’t love me
When I was 6 I was worried that you stopped loving me
When I was 7 I didn’t know why you ignored me
When I was 8 I was too scared to think about if you loved me
When I was 9 I was sad that you might not love me
When I was 10 I tried to make you love me
When I was 11 I was sure it was my fault that you didn’t love me
When I was 12 I was ashamed that I was growing up
When I was 13 I thought you might love me because I was growing into a woman
When I was 14 I knew you stopped loving me
When I was 15 I thought I might be wrong and you would love me
When I was 16 I gave up on trying to get you to love me
When I was 17 I dreamed you loved me
When I was 18 I stopped loving you
When I was 19 I stopped loving me
When I was 20 I hated me
When I was 21 I hated you
When I was 58 I forgave me by loving me
Boundaries play an important part in putting our needs front and center. The cool thing about boundaries is that no one needs to know you are setting them. They are for you and in your control.…
I am working on opening my heart. Looking back on my childhood years, I can see how I protected my heart by building walls around it. It seems the more I was abused, the thicker the walls got.…
Judging ourselves and each other is a habit that becomes very toxic, very quickly. Judging one another or a stranger walking on the street can end a world of possibilities within seconds if done right.…
It is easy to get caught up in thinking that our disappointments and lost directions are a waste of our time. When we fall into this cycle, we tend to forget the power of those disappointments.…
I have been hiding part of my truth. I needed to take the time to honor the process and allow myself to heal, take back my life and embrace the power that lies inside me.…
